How to Define an Honest, Correct & Empowering Spirit Guide Relationship

This is the last page of a 8 page article series on:
"How to Define an 'Honest, Correct & Empowering' Relationship with your Spirit Guides? Did you know that your Spirit Guides Attack others, lie AND keep secret what they 'really' do on your behalf? Why do many whom consider themselves 'Spiritual' remain unaware of the Contradictions of 'Spiritual' Protection?"

Are you just assuming that your spirit guides will deal with yourself and others correctly?

Advice: How to Reduce the ‘Bad Behaviour’ Possibilities of Spirit Guides

If you want to have even a slight chance of ensuring that your spirit guides are actually operating with respect, integrity and honesty then have a read of the below and consider using it with a Determinedly Applied Focused Intent and Will. As in:

I WANT ‘THIS‘ . . .

What I give below is a comprehensive ‘statement of intent’ defining a more secure, honest and empowering relationship while also giving you more opportunities to deepen your understandings, empowering yourself as well as of expanding your healing and subtle skills, perceptions and abilities.

WARNING: Some of you will find that just casually ‘reading’ through what is below will cause your spirit guides to have fits and have them taking all sorts of dishonouring actions to get you away from here as fast as possible. The problem being is that the guides with the WORST attitudes whom want to continue doing what they’ve been doing will most likely make the biggest effort to be able to continue as they have been. You are also WARNED that spirit guides that are already ‘CORRECT’ won’t try and persuade you that you don’t need to do it either or that you’ve already done something like this in the past . . . and so on. Any spirit guides that are half decent would welcome having a formal ‘defined’ agreement that made everything very clear.

So, remember the above as you read the below and if when you get to the very end you actually want to ‘ACTIVELY’ use this for yourself then use the line after the FINISH to ‘engage’ with what is below with a Determinedly Applied Intent from the START on your second run through . . . GOOD LUCK

A Statement of Intent Defining your Spirit Guide Relationship, Ground Rules, Behaviour, Honesty & Empowering Attitudes Right Alignment

If this is your first time reading what is below then state the following:

For any spirit guides with me NOW. PLEASE TAKE NOTE I’m just ‘reading’ what follows I’m NOT applying this to you as spirit guides or to any other ‘beings in spirit’ relationships at this time, so I ask all my spirit guides to ignore what I’m reading as it doesn’t at this time relate to yourself.


I invite ALL my spirit guides and ALL beings in spirit that are NOW working with me in ANY capacity what so ever to come here now and to listen to what I have to say NOW . . . I want EACH AND EVERY being in spirit that is working with me or helping me to come to me now AND to listen to what I have to say NOW . . . I fully engage with each of these beings now . . .

I want you ALL to listen to me NOW . . . the following are my basic ground rules about how we work together . . . what I am stating here is my agreement defining my relationship with yourselves and you relationship to myself and they override all past rules, agreements and expectations . . . you will all be held to what I state here so you need to listen to what I present . . . any spirit guide that cannot hold to the terms I state here or that disagrees with ANY of what I state cannot work with me any longer and must leave . . . I DON’T want any being in spirit whom cannot respect what I ask for here to work with myself . . . from now on, for ANY spirit being to work with myself to guide me, protect me, teach me or to work with me in ANY other capacity no matter what this is you must agree to and accept the following terms . . .

firstly: you are not allowed under ANY circumstances to lie to me or to deceive me in anyway about anything . . . you also are NOT under any circumstances allowed to keep anything hidden from myself . . . if you cannot respect what I ask for here you are must leave now . . . secondly: I ask ONLY for guides that are honouring and respectful to myself and others to work with myself . . . in this respect under no circumstances do you have my permission to in ANYWAY, directly or indirectly for ANY reason attack any other on my behalf . . . you do not ever under any circumstances have my permission to respond to any attack directed at myself by attacking whom is doing this OR whom is responsible for this . . . in ALL attack circumstances you have my permission if you think it’s necessary to ‘protect’ my immediate space AND if necessary to ‘nicely’ restrain attacking beings AND most importantly you must informing me of what is going on . . . you must help me to become aware of any taking actions against myself and you must help me to learn how to deal with these myself . . . you must teach me or learn to teach me or find others to teach me how to deal with attacks and other and ALL subtle energetic things impacting and or influencing myself . . . IF between yourselves you don’t have these skills OR you are too incompetent to do this then you need to and you MUST find others that can help me in these ways . . . this will be your first task on my behalf with respect to this agreement . . . IF you disagree with ANY of this then your first and last job is to find other spirit guides whom will work with me with respect to what I define and state that I want here . . .

. . . I NOW, ALWAYS and ONLY want spirit guides whom are OPEN to change, whom are willing to accept that everything they know or believe in might be wrong . . . I NOW, ALWAYS and ONLY want spirit guides whom are willing to get involved with things they are NOT familiar with or that DON’T fit in with their current beliefs and whom are willing to learn and change as much as I want to . . . I NOW, ALWAYS and ONLY want spirit guides who are not only going to listen to what I ask for here BUT will take it seriously AND act on it . . . ANY not taking what I’m asking for here and now seriously are NOW sacked . . . this is not NEGOTIABLE . . . ANY spirit guides whom cannot respect what I am asking for here or whom cannot or wont fit in with what I’m asking for here and now . . . you are now sacked . . . you NOW don’t have my permission to work with me from this point on . . . nor do you have my permission for you yourself or anyone else to try and persuade me to change my mind about this . . . this is not NEGOTIABLE either

I state now that one of you is ALWAYS assigned to find another spirit guide team whom can take over from yourselves when I have learned all that I can from yourselves . . . I want new spirit guides that can take my understandings beyond what I hold to now ALL THE TIME and at least every 6 weeks . . . I ALWAYS and ONLY want spirit guides whom are NOT assuming that what they have always done is the best or is ‘right’ compared to anything else . . . new teams must have different and new skills, abilities and understandings compared to those I’ve worked with in that past so that I am always learning new things, so I am always moving beyond my past boundaries and zones of comfort and am always expanding my understandings, subtle abilities and skills . . . this is what I want . . .

Finally . . . EACH and EVERY Spirit guide whom has the courage to work with myself under these conditions MUST accept, agree to and abide by the above ground rules . . . these are not optional . . . what I have stated here overrides ANYTHING I’ve previous agreed to . . . it overrides each and every and ALL previous agreements, contracts, vows, pacts, promises, oaths and ANYTHING similar or ANY subtle energetic substitute or spell and everything else used to bind me to anything . . . I completely break all previous agreements of ALL types NOW . . . I REPEAT I completely break and release myself from all previous agreements and all implied agreements of ALL shapes, sizes and types NOW . . . I release myself and ALL others completely from ALL of these NOW . . . myself and ALL those whom were part of ANY of these part agreements are NOW freed from them . . . are no longer bound by them . . . I wont be held from this point on to ANYTHING that contradicts or goes against or that would hold me back with regards what I state here . . . I thank all of those that I made these past agreements with and I make it clear that I’m choosing to do things differently now and I ask that you respect my choice to do things differently compared to my past as I respect their choice to continue doing the same . . . IF you don’t agree with this or you stand against this then I ask that my spirit guides negotiate and break any necessary energetic ties to make this so AND if they cannot do this then I ask them to find spirit beings that can do this . . . to make what I ask for here happen . . .


If you want to use the above actively then continue reading and use the paragraph below to make it ‘active’ and then read it again with a DETERMINED WILLED FOCUSED INTENT . . . as in;


Defining an Honest, Empowering Relationship with your Spirit Guides

To ALL Spirit Guides working with me NOW


What I’m about to read I’m deadly serious about. I am directing this to EACH of those whom are my spirit guides and to all other spirit beings facilitating me at this time. This defines what I want from you. What I state, will define an agreement and our relationship with respect to how we work together and how you work with myself. What I’m about to read now supersedes and replaces all other agreements whether explicitly stated or implied . . .

Now, go back to the START above and state all of this as if you seriously mean it all of the way though until the FINISH line again.

If you can relate to what I write here or want to give feedback then leave a comment below . . .


  1. Silvia
    September 12, 2012 @ 3:57 pm

    I just wish to say that this latest series about guides was FANTASTIC!! So many things that opened up to me when I read that, you wouldn’t believe it.

    The statement you put in there in fact is absolutely fantastic. Sometimes all one need is something like that to have some perspective on what is going on.

    But “as above, so below”, if you could explain why do some kind of “nasty” guides or spirits or consciousnesses or whatever are attracted to us (or vice-versa), I would really like to know. Who assigns guides to a person, how is that this relationship starts, and how can you be aware that you have a bad-ass as your guide?
    “As above so below” again, sometimes you don’t even know that you have one of those in your own family! (unfortunately, this seems to be my case). You just find out when a group comes with a kind of “vendetta” against you!

    And talking about groups… mentioned the rivalry between groups in another series, but to get rid of such things is not clear. Families are groups, aren’t they? So if you have a situation such as a “Montecchio-Capuletti” in your life and your mother or father has kept you unaware of that and you find out years later, what is that precisely you do?? Or even if you are aware that you have someone in your family that is a serious threat to you? A family relationship is something that is not really easily dealt with, and at least 50% of the time it ends up in tragedy.
    Any ideas, inputs, suggestions, thoughts would be MORE THAN welcome!
    And again, thanks for “going where no man has even gone before”, mr. Spock.


  2. Silvia
    October 17, 2012 @ 10:11 pm

    Clive, thanks for the explanation. I hope I’ve gotten your point, but honestly, things are getting either clearer and more confuse at the same time. Maybe it’s the “end of times” thing, but not even the “as above so below” is presently holding. And this is becoming more annoying by the day. It is a big sadness to have the feeling that there is almost no one or nothing that can be trusted, very few solutions and the more I try to find out, the bigger are the crappy things I meet. Do we live in hell, or what?
    Last week I had some nice news on the material plan, but since I am still puzzled by many things, I’ve got at the same time some answers on the spiritual side that saddened me a lot. Please correct me if I am wrong, but I found out what horrendous emptiness most of the souls are, lost, violated, craving for some spiritual sense that…if exists, cannot be found. I felt that day that many were asking me if I could help ( not asking directly, but …I don’t know….felt like walking in a battlefield after the battle when the dying ones asked for anything that could ease their pain…it was not nice). The only thing I found out which was worth some note was a study on the roots of evil personalities, that was really good, because brought a paradigm- breaking situation in a sense. But found up to now nothing that points to an essence of “an original good”. There must be one, because I know some people that are truly good, so there must be something good above – so I hope. Not found it yet, but in a strage way I feel it is beside me and I cannot see it nor communicate because the crappy is so crappy. Boy, this sucks!
    Anyway, just babbling a bit to thank you for the answer and sharing my confusion. Oh, and still fighting to survive, now in the “anything goes” mode. Some crappy things have absolutely no limits, this is what I found out. Try to be good and negotiate, they will eat you alive. I am so tired…


  3. Amy
    October 21, 2012 @ 2:28 am

    Omg- I thought I was the only one on earth who has dark, dishonest, energy sucking spirit guides. A year ago I contacted my spirit guides and learned how to communicate with them. I’ve been told lie after lie and it has almost destroyed me. I keep hoping, wanting, needing the kind, gentle and loving guidance I keep reading about. I keep believing that things will change but they don’t. I feel that my spirit has been broken and I don’t know what to do. Nobody talks about this stuff and those who I have told think I’m crazy. I read the disclosure and meant every word. What now??


  4. Cow
    October 21, 2012 @ 7:00 pm

    I am very thankful that you have gifted the lot of struggling spirit buffoons, like I, with an elaborate Focused Statement to make both the “Angel and Devil on my shoulder” far more noble, honest, and compassionate with me. The first time that I made this statement was two days after the day you originally posted this series. I recalled how obnoxiously loud I mentally (as well as physically, for short bursts) shouted the statement in its entirety. By the time that I was finished, I was panting for air, and my usually virile, excited body was completely depleted of energy, as if I just downed a dozen or so Xanax pills (albeit, I was in a Happy Happy Joy Joy Stupor). A pain and dryness couple be felt in my throat, and my usually boisterous tone of voice became dim and faint for the rest of the day.

    I have made the contract again this morning, and I can already tell that the differences are dramatic. The only difficulties I had was a constant decrease in the volume of my Mental Voice (forcing the volume back up resulted in some fatigue and grogginess.) and a bit of doubt and fear whence I got to the part about being open to change (which I was very aware of being “most likely” not from an extraneous subtle energetic source.) Overall, I am only beginning to learn now that healing my soul does not just mean meditating or finding an “appropriate space”, but a dramatic change in personality and disposition towards all the things that I do (especially after reading the page you linked in the comment to Amy.)

    I am certain that I have convinced one person to do the same as I and ALSO put an end to all the crap that is influencing and manipulating both him and I on all levels. To this man I have shared the site with you a couple of weeks after I stumbled upon it, though only now does he have the courage to state the contract. If all goes accordingly to plan, he and I will begin to work together to help one another to point out all problems and discrepancies between us.

    Call me foolish, or insane, but I care not if you or your group of healers are unavailable to help me. Though neither me or him have any Multi Dimensional awareness, that will NOT stop us from dedicating as much time as possible to properly healing one another… may our teams be able to succeed and form a strong connection as inchoate practitioners, ready to take on all the shit that will work around the clock to keep us far apart and face-down on the ground.
    ….oops, I mean “Moo”


    • Clive
      October 21, 2012 @ 8:34 pm

      Yea, a sense of humour is essential . . . I’ve sometimes let rip so strongly that if demons aren’t fighting each other to hide behind the biggest sofa they can find in the next multiverse over I’d be surprised . . .


  5. Jean C
    March 8, 2013 @ 5:24 am

    Thanks Cow, you are an inspiration.


  6. Clive
    March 8, 2013 @ 10:45 am

    You’ve pages here ‘Purple Raven’ answering your questions in detail.

    Everyone including guides is speaking for their corner and trying to persuade others to engage with their corner and ‘believe’ in it. Why on earth do you imagine they are doing this to teach you something? Sounds like ‘love & Light’ BS to have you not confront what they ARE DOING.


  7. eevie
    May 14, 2013 @ 3:08 am

    Ha! Found a place to commment, but not on this post. I cannot express how happy i am to have found your site. You answer all the questions that have arisen especially of late. They have pressed in on me for a few years if not longer now, telling me this isn’t right, the spirituality, the never ending plague of bs that is my life. ha A couple of weeks ago the akashic hall of records was attacked. I noticed that people began to really wake up, things meant for bad are almost instantly manifesting blessing in turn. I came to the conclusion that the hall of records is more like a malevolent et control program. Then I find your site. Can’t get enough of what you have to say. Thank you so very much.


  8. eevie
    May 14, 2013 @ 3:51 am

    btw I love you writing style, humor is the only way to go. 🙂
    I have to mention since all this has hit my awareness, everyone has stopped emailing me as of today. lololol I can’t get a response from anyone. They think I’ve gone round the twist for sure, but like i always tell them, truth is rarely something you want to hear. Thanks again.


  9. kerri
    February 23, 2015 @ 6:19 am

    Hey man just gave it a shot to see if you’re still around. My guides use to give me incredible psychic info then they began lying being deceitful and even make me dillusional. Just hope your affirmations work, I was mind F’d by a group in Australia when they came after me but I think it was my guides controlling me to do stuff to them i think they were the illuminati because I was deciphering there gibberish. But I hear what you say about with spirit guides attacking etc. Why oh why do they do that to manifest karma or something? Why did I go from psychic to dillusional then for my guides to tell me they would make me psychic if I left a job then lied. Now they’re trying to make me commit suicide as if I can’t move forward. I had a kundalini awakening and lost my wife my job and moved back home I have nearly lost all motivation to move forward. But I knew hard out spirit guides can be sly. I astral travel and these days getting spiritually smarter.


  10. Louisa
    November 23, 2015 @ 10:54 pm

    I myself am trying to find people or friends to do this work with no luck yet lol.


  11. Nuez
    November 5, 2018 @ 8:28 pm

    While I recited this there was some light pain in the right side of my chest, and once I was done, my head was buzzing. Thank you for doing what you do!


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