Advice & Suggestions to aid Personal Awareness of Negative Issues & Debilitating Life Patterns

Below is a page section taken directly from the manual that gave clients advice that would help them engage with themselves and think about themselves in different ways as part of what we were doing at that time.

Self Exploration to Help Identify Negative Issues and Life Patterns Advice; How to become more Self Aware and Self Attuned

So, just to help you get into the right ‘zone’ to look at yourself here are some leading questions that you should work through at least twice a week and send to me as part of your update (unedited). It is best to pick the days to do this RANDOMLY. Not Friday each week as a spread through out the week is best.

  1. HINT; Doing this on CRAP days is often more useful than on good days.
  2. HINT; Take note of sabotages that try and stop you doing this and what form those sabotages take?
  3. HINT; When things are conspiring to stop you doing this then this is a BIG INDICATION OF SOMETHING to take note of!!
  4. [ANOTHER HINT; When this happens then AT THE VERY LEAST TELL ME!!!!]
  5. [AND YET ANOTHER HINT; Don’t wait until tomorrow to take a note of this as the chances are then very slim that you will? How many days just went past after taking the last note and you still have not sent that e-mail?]

Some Self Help Reminders and Prompts to help Improve & Increase Self Awareness & Negative Issue Awareness

  1. What has effected me today? (Why did I feel as I did today? What were the effects of me feeling like this; What did this make me do? What did this make me not do?)
  2. What pushed me to do something? (watch TV, read, spend 15 hours making lunch, go out to buy ice cream, start to write a book)
  3. Why was I pushed? Did doing this stop me from doing something that might be more important? Like thinking about yourself?
  4. What should have effected me today that did not? (Why did I not react to ‘THIS’, Why when I was treated badly I did not react?)
  5. What did I do that I did not like doing? (Becoming over reactive? Getting very angry for example? Why do I not like this? Am I trying to stop myself from expressing or am I being made to over express?)
  6. What did I not do that I would have liked to have done? (Or felt better about, getting very angry for example?)
  7. What kept me pleasantly occupied? (Could something be making me do this?)

What event or interaction did I encounter today that made me feel in ways that;

  1. I do not like?
  2. I don’t find it easy to think about?
  3. Keeps me preoccupied – that I cannot let go of?

What event or interaction did I encounter today that made me think in ways that;

  1. I do not like?
  2. I do not want to acknowledge or think about further?
  3. That caused me to become preoccupied – that I cannot stop thinking about?
  4. Who or what am I thinking about today that I was yesterday too?

What did I not like about today? (Why did I not like this?)

  1. What is most stressing me, occupying me or irritating me today?
  2. What would I most like to change about today?
  3. What areas of life kept throwing similar things at me the last few days?
  4. What happened today that is a pattern that I try not to take notice of?
  5. How much of today have I just missed; been unconscious through, or been blanked out during?
  6. How much of today have I been so busy that I have not had time to engage my consciousness / awareness / be in touch with myself?

What else is going on?

  1. How much am I justifying my life? And doing so in terms of some belief or spiritual attitude?
  2. Why cannot I think of anything when I actually sit to do this? (Why have I not told Clive this?)
  3. How much of what I became aware of doing this list yesterday have I forgotten about (Have I not written down? Have I not told Clive about?) (Did I write it down but it got lost, the computer crashed, the file disappeared?)
  4. How much of what I thought about yesterday did I actually write down? (How much of what I have been writing down actually now makes no sense? What is causing this?)

All clients were given this self exploration guide and told to use it (refer to it) to help remind themselves and become aware of events, aspects, states and behaviours of themselves and particularly those that are being ‘blanked’ out or kept out of awareness.

As I state above they should have been using the above as a guide to do this twice a week at least.

Click the line below to download a .pdf of this if you want to work with this yourself.



  1. Margus
    December 29, 2014 @ 10:10 am

    Thank you for that! It’s actually virtually the first time I’m able to take notes about how my mind goes blank and how I feel like I’m attacked. I think, it should be obvious by now, but I still try to relate it to my own issues, and not pay much attention to it. Writing stuff down is the only way I can engage with the topic any deeper, because it’s almost impossible for me to think about the simulation project and thinking managing areas on any level at all. Don’t want to sound overly dramatic, but It’s very hard for me to write this comment right now and I feel like I want to stop and leave it every single second. Well here you go, simulation f***-s


    • Clive
      December 29, 2014 @ 1:54 pm

      I’d not thought about anyone actually wanting to work with this ‘as a guide’ which is bizarre in itself.

      I’ve made and left at the bottom of the page a .pdf of this ‘guide’ page for anyone wanting a copy to work with it. I’ll try and remember to dig the entire thing out and update it and put it here sometime. BUT far too busy to do this at the present time . . .


  2. Cass
    January 28, 2015 @ 8:40 am

    Hi Clive, I’m new to your site and have been looking around. I found this because I was looking for something I could actually do. I’m having a hard time remembering what I want to say right now so bear with me.

    For the past 5 years or so I have been dealing with crippling depression. I spend days upon days in my house (I managed to go outside every day this week which is a huge accomplishment for me). Medication doesn’t work. Therapy doesn’t work. Even when I manage to leave my house it’s to do the most mundane things. I usually can’t manage to do more than one thing a day (go to the hardware store, or go take my dog to the groomers). I’m a highly intelligent person. I’m also very curious and want to find out the truth or at least who’s controlling the truth, no matter what. My personality completely changed with depression. My confidence disappeared. I should also mention I’m very young, barely older than 20. I feel like I can’t live out what should be my best years.

    I can’t get out of bed a lot of the times (not won’t, but can’t). I’m tired of it. I’m tired of being unable to at least have my body do what my mind wants. I’m tired of fighting my own mind, because in a fight with yourself you lose either way.

    Looking at this list of prompts my first thought is really that this is way too much for me to do. I could never write about all of those things in a day. I don’t have the energy. I can barely stand to read all of them.

    I can’t yet print them out but I will try. I really need my life back. I will see if I can find some way to do this exercise. Right now it seems impossible and highly unlikely, but we’ll see.


  3. Cass
    January 28, 2015 @ 8:45 am

    I’m also finding that I have a very hard time reading your site and understanding it. The words seem to lack meaning and I have to try really hard to even understand what you’re saying. I never have trouble with reading comprehension or just idea comprehension. I also feel completely lost as to what your actual message is and how we can, for example, begin to access past lives or understand ourselves. It’s almost as though the site seems like an explanation without ANY advice on how-to do anything. I’m sure it’s here I’m just not seeing it.


    • Clive
      January 28, 2015 @ 12:13 pm

      “I have a very hard time reading your site and understanding it. The words seem to lack meaning and I have to try really hard to even understand what you’re saying.”

      It’s a ‘special’ feature of this site which is explained on a few pages on this site BUT this page here and the comments below it you might find useful.


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